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12th-Oct-2019 04:43 pm - Friends only
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Selectively Adding. Hello, hello! This journal is written by a pretty awesome canadian girl, and will be adding only awesome and fantastic people; preferably adults. Before commenting here, and then clicking on the add button, it's important that you know I'm slightly crazy, addicted to coffee, my longest relationship involves my cat and I get easily lost in books. I will turn down brand new (unless we've known eachother before) and inactives journals.
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31st-Oct-2015 09:49 am - friends cut.
Copy/pasting this from my last post because the cut has been done and if you've been cut and wonder why you can't see my journal so here is the reason why. I'm really sorry.

I'm doing a major friends' cut later today. I'm sorry, I just can't keep up with everyone anymore, and it's not fair to keep you all around if I can't be a good enough friend. If we interact on a weekly basis, you should be safe. Cuts are the worst, they make me feel like an absolutely shitty person, but sometimes they are necessary.

(to be deleted in a week)
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Books

01. Lean In by: Sheryl Sandberg
02. Then Again by: Diane Keaton
03. This is Where I Leave You by: Jonathan Tropper
04. Ingrid by: Charlotte Chandler
05. Just Kids by: Patti Smith
06. Mrs. Dalloway by: Virginia Woolf
08. A Moveable Feast by: Ernest Hemingway
09. Conversations with Scorsese by: Richard Schickel
10. The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt
11. Franny & Zooey by: J.D. Salinger
12. A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius by: Dave Eggers
13. Nine Stories by: J.D. Salinger
14. The Luminaries by Eleanor Catton
15. Mary Coin by: Marisa Silver
16. Casebook by: Mona Simpson
17. The Corrections by: Jonathan Franzen
18. #Girlboss by: Sophia Amoruso
19. The Beautiful and the Damned by: F Scott Fitzgerald
20. Olive Kitteridge by: Elizabeth Strout
21. After Visiting Friends by: Michael Hainey
22. The Son by: Philipp Meyer
23. Rules of Civility by: Amor Towles
24. Colorless Tzukuru Tazaki by: Haruki Murakami
25. We Are Water by: Wally Lamb
26.
I Know This Much is True by: Wally Lamb
27. The Hours by: Michael Cunningham
28. Dogs of God by: Pinckney Benedict
29.
Never Let Me Go by: Kazuo Ishiguro
30. Lars Von Trier Interviews

31. The Stepdaughter by: Caroline Blackwood
32. The Last of the Duchess by: Caroline Blackwood
33. The Naked Singularity by: Sergio De La Pava
34. The Secret History by Donna Tartt
35. House of Mirth by Edith Wharton
36. In America by Susan Sontag
37. Dubliners by James Joyces
38. American Mirror by Deborah Solomon
39. SUSAN SONTAG: THE COMPLETE ROLLING STONE INTERVIEW written by: Jonathan Cott

40. Diary of a Teenage Girl by Phoebe Gloeckner
41. The Little Friend by Donna Tartt
42. East of Eden by John Steinbeck
43. The Mountain Story - Lori Lansens
44. Girls - Lori Lansens
45. Not That Kind of Girl - Lena Dunham
46. Church of Marvels - Leslie Parry
47. My Brilliant Friend - Elena Ferrante
48. Purity - Jonathan Franzen (both JMo and Rose)
49. Underworld - Don DeLillo


Total: 9/49



Movies

01. NETWORK directed by: Sydney Lumet
02. ROOM 237 directed by: Rodney Ascher
03. To Kill a Mockingbird directed by: Robert Mulligan
04. Harold and Maude directed by: Hal Ashby
05. Save the Date directed by: Michael Mohan
06. Saving Mr. Banks
08. Mary Poppins
09. Blue is the Warmest Colour
10. Jiro Dreams of Sushi directed by: David Gelb
11. Alice Doesn't Live Here Anymore directed by: Martin Scorsese
12. Orphan Black created by: Graeme Manson and John Fawcett
13. Her directed by: Spike Jonze
14. Inside Llewyn Davis directed by: Joel and Ethan Coen
15. The Grand Budapest Hotel directed by: Wes Anderson
16. Another Happy Day directed by: Sam Levinson
17. The Heartbreak Kid directed by: Elaine May
18. The Hours directed by: Stephen Daldry
19. Birdman directed by: Alejandro González Iñárritu
20. Room at the Top directed by: Jack Clayton
21. Melancholia directed by: Lars Von Trier
22. Nynphomaniac I & II directed by: Lars Von Trier
23. Europa directed by: Lars Von Trier
24. Breaking the Waves directed by: Lars Von Trier
25. Dancer in the Dark directed by: Lars Von Trier
26. Dogville directed by: Lars Von Trier
27. Manderlay directed by: Lars Von Trier

28. Scenes From a Marriage directed by: Ingmar Bergman
29. Marwencol directed by Jeff Malmberg
30. NOAH directed by: Darren Aronofsky
31. Frozen directed by: Jennifer Lee

32. THE WIZARD OF OZ Directed by: Victor Fleming, George Cukor
33. Persona directed by: Ingmar Bergman
34. Hour of the Wolf directed by: Ingmar Bergman
35. Shame directed by: Ingmar Bergman
36. Outlander
37. (Rose) Salt of the Earth directed by: Wim Wenders
38. True Detective
39. Orange is the New Black
40. The Jinx
41. Juno directed by Jason Reitman

Total: 11/39
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15th-Sep-2014 06:16 pm - major friends' cut
Hey guys. It's not a surprise that I can't really keep up with my friends' list anymore, and I've come to just ignore LJ because I pressure myself to read EVERYTHING. So I rather bury my head in the sand and ignore you guys. Which sucks for both parties. SO. I'm going to be doing a friends' cut tomorrow morning. I'd like to keep around 30 of you but that's not really realistic.. It'll be more about 50 :)

If you feel like we aren't ~compatible as friends and would want to remove me, feel free to do so. No hard feelings <3


JJ WHAT
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18th-May-2014 10:41 am - Friends' cut
This post is just to let you know that I'm going to be doing a major friends' cut this afternoon. I realized that LJ is taking A LOT of my time each day, and it's getting a bit stressful.

List of reasons why I might have cut you:

  1. You never post

  2. You are active on LJ, but you never bother replying to the comments I leave on your journal

  3. You are active on LJ, but I don't feel like we've connected. You never comment on my journal despite me trying my best to comment on yours.

If you've been cut, please remove me. This cut will be final. No hard feelings, it's nothing personal. We can't be friends with everyone.. These are never pleasant, and I apologize if I hurt your feelings :(
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19th-Mar-2014 10:20 am - Friends Cut
Just a little warning: I'll be doing a friends' cut either tonight or tomorrow morning.

I can't keep up with everyone, and most of the people I'll cut have either never posted or commented on my journal.
Or we have never "clicked".

Feel free to remove me if you are feeling the same. I know I haven't been the best at keeping in touch lately.
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23rd-Jan-2014 10:07 am - hello, y'all
Hey guys! I hope you are all doing okay :)

Just letting you know that I'm going to be doing a massive friend cut later today. I lost a few "friends" in the past 2-3 weeks, and it made me realized that I don't know all of you, and there you are, able to read my journal about super personal things. I guess all I'm saying is. I don't feel comfortable sharing some stuff.

I don't want to hurt anyone's feeling. So please don't be hurt. I already feel bad for removing people. I hate doing friends' cut, but sometimes they are necessary...
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2nd-May-2013 01:16 pm - Friends' cut April 2013
So I did a friends cut like I mentionned earlier. If you can't see this post, you have been cut for a few reasons a) we never talk, b) even though I comment you don't reply and/or don't comment on my posts c) we don't speak on LJ and on any other social media website

All of these meaning if we haven't connected yet, I don't think we ever will. If you think I made a mistake please comment here, they are screened.
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