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hello, y'all 
23rd-Jan-2014 10:07 am
Hey guys! I hope you are all doing okay :)

Just letting you know that I'm going to be doing a massive friend cut later today. I lost a few "friends" in the past 2-3 weeks, and it made me realized that I don't know all of you, and there you are, able to read my journal about super personal things. I guess all I'm saying is. I don't feel comfortable sharing some stuff.

I don't want to hurt anyone's feeling. So please don't be hurt. I already feel bad for removing people. I hate doing friends' cut, but sometimes they are necessary...
comic | danvers
23rd-Jan-2014 03:19 pm (UTC)
eh, it happens. It is your journal and you need to feel comfortable writing in it. or that would sort of the defeat the purpose :)
23rd-Jan-2014 03:42 pm (UTC)
I'm with nessainwe -- you should definitely feel safe about the people who are able to read your posts and there shouldn't be worries about limiting what you share.

Friends cuts are never fun, but it is nice that you gave us a heads up. It's sort of sad and confusing to just see that someone removed you completely out of the blue.
23rd-Jan-2014 03:48 pm (UTC)
Thank you.

I always announce it when I do a cut. I hate being remove and not knowing why myself. It happened a few times the past 2 weeks and it's been really.. well kinda depressing. But it's life :)
23rd-Jan-2014 05:53 pm (UTC)
You have to feel safe in your own journal. I won't at all be offended if you decide to cut me, I would totally understand. <3
23rd-Jan-2014 06:39 pm (UTC)
I hope you're doing okay <3
23rd-Jan-2014 06:52 pm (UTC)
dude it's your journal you shouldn't have anyone who you don't feel comfortable with! otherwise you might not wanna update about stuff and then the journal kinda loses its point x
23rd-Jan-2014 08:37 pm (UTC)
Understood. The other approach would be to create a "top secret" filter and place only those friends on it that you want to read those deeply personal posts. I hope all is well.
23rd-Jan-2014 08:45 pm (UTC)
do what you gotta do, sweetie.

(as long as you don't cut me, lol! j/k)
23rd-Jan-2014 08:46 pm (UTC)
Don't worry.

I wrote you a letter yesterday (finally). Sending it soon!
23rd-Jan-2014 08:50 pm (UTC)
yay! :D
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24th-Jan-2014 12:41 pm (UTC)
The cut has been made ;)
23rd-Jan-2014 09:58 pm (UTC)
What's most important is that you feel comfortable and safe in your own journal, bb. *hugs you tight* ♥
23rd-Jan-2014 10:34 pm (UTC)
You always always need to feel comfortable in your own LJ-space. Do whatever you need to do. I wish you all the best in any case :)
23rd-Jan-2014 11:32 pm (UTC)
You have to do what you need to do. ♥
24th-Jan-2014 12:52 am (UTC)
<3 gotta do what you gotta do for you, bb
24th-Jan-2014 01:13 am (UTC)
:( I hope I can stay... I know I haven't been the best of friends around, but I've been so busy with school!
24th-Jan-2014 12:39 pm (UTC)
The cut has been made...
Of course you stayed :D
24th-Jan-2014 03:35 am (UTC)
24th-Jan-2014 03:42 am (UTC)
It's all right. I totally understand. ♥
24th-Jan-2014 12:07 pm (UTC)


good to hear from you :)

Yes, sometimes friends cuts are absolutely necessary
24th-Jan-2014 12:40 pm (UTC)

I agree, but they are also shitty!
31st-Jan-2014 11:34 am (UTC)
yes ...
24th-Jan-2014 11:19 pm (UTC)
Sometimes friend cuts are necessary. Glad to hear you're doing okay, though!
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